The Parish Visitor

First Reformed Church of Fishkill

July 2009

Dear Friends,

 

In June the General Synod of the Reformed Church in America was called to order in Holland, Michigan, to do the business of the church. With over 200 people entering into the decision process it’s difficult to make sure everyone is heard and still move the agenda along, to speak only to the issue and not get into personalities or side conversations. But with all of our missteps and fumbles, we somehow manage to get some major things accomplished, though not all may agree on the outcomes.

 

The General Synod celebrated the 30th anniversary of the ordination of women to the office of minister of Word and Sacrament. But there was some background to that story that didn’t get mentioned. The formal RCA conversation on the question of the ordination began in 1942 when a letter was received from the American Association of Women Preachers requesting that women be given the opportunity to enter into the ordained ministry. The short answer was –“we haven’t allowed women to be elders, so we can’t allow them to be ministers.”

 

In 1958 the General Synod adopted a recommendation from the Theological Commission which stated: “Scripture nowhere excludes women from eligibility to the offices but always emphasizes their inclusion, prominence and equal status with men in the Church of Jesus Christ.”

 

In 1969 the Classis of Mid-Hudson requested that the word ‘persons’ in the Book of Church Order be substituted with the phrase “men and women.” This failed.

 

In 1972, General Synod voted to permit the ordination of women to the offices of elder and deacon. They also ruled that a “conscious clause,” which allowed people to not participate in the ordination of women was theologically unsound and denied its use.

 

 In 1973, Joyce Stedge (Fowler) was ordained as the first woman minister in the Classis of Rockland-Westchester and installed in Mid-Hudson Classis to serve at the Rochester Reformed Church of Accord. This brought the issue to General Synod again.

 

In 1979, the 173rd General Synod passed the recommendation that the office of minister of Word was open to both men and women.

 

In 1980, the General Synod voted to include a “conscious clause”, which allows ministers and elders not to participate in the ordination of women, but also not to hinder that ordination in any way. The General Synod voted in 2004 to remove the “conscious clauses” from the Book of Church Order (BCO). The amendment failed to receive support from 2/3 of the Classes, which is needed to change the BCO. And so the clause remains.

 

And that’s the rest of the story, for now.

 

Peace to all,

JULY CALENDAR

5

Worship – Communion 10 am

21

Consistory - 7:15 pm

8

Book Study - 7:15 pm

22

Book Study – 7:15 pm

12

Worship – 10 am

Historic Church tour 2-4 pm*

26

Worship – 10 am

15

Book Study – 7:15 pm

29

Book Study – 7:15 pm

19

Worship – 10 am

 

 

*see this Parish Visitor for more information

 

 

I want to take this opportunity to extend a HUGE THANK YOU to the Senior Choir for their loyal dedication, week in and week out. They spend their Thursday evenings at the Dubois House, rehearsing for all the Sunday mornings they devote to the church in order that the members can have a worshipful experience. For many years they have faithfully given their services with the only reward being the angel wings they have earned, and also many times, you, the congregation, have spoken to me of your thanks and gratitude for the beautiful music. It is much appreciated!! So, Hail to the Choir for a job well done.

While I am on the subject, I don't want to overlook our newest addition to the music program, our fabulous Chime Choir. They, too, have given many hours of rehearsal and service to the church, and they have added much to the worship experience. Again, many of the congregations have complimented the choir on their participation and unique sound. Indeed, the chime choir recently played in the Poughkeepsie Plaza Mall for a 400th anniversary celebration of our Dutch Heritage. Many people spoke to me of never hearing a chime choir before, and how beautiful the sound was for them. So the next time you happen to see one of these members from either choir, please express your gratitude to them. I know they will be thrilled that you appreciate them.             

                                                                                       Minister of Music, Connie Lacey

 

 

 

SAVE THE DATE:

 

BLOOD DRIVE – TUESDAY, AUGUST 4th – 2:30 – 7:30 pm.

 

 

 

 

 

 

Coffee Hour Hosts                 

For July and August 2009:

 

HOST (First Name):  Please call the others on your week to avoid duplication.  Also assign or bring milk and juice.  PLEASE REMEMBEER TO KEEP COFFEE HOUR EASY AND SIMPLE.  NO NEED TO BAKE UNLESS YOU ENJOY IT!  Come early to set up table.

ALL OTHERS:  If you cannot do coffee hour on this date, find a replacement and call the church office with the name of your replacement

 

Due to a computer virus, Ronnie Badowski is working from a new list.

 

IF YOU HAVE ANY QUESTIONS, CONCERNS, OR PROBLEMS REGARDING THE DATE YOUR NAME APPEARS. PLEASE CALL KAREN TWOHIG AT 831-5694. If you requested that your name be taken off the list and it still appears, please inform Karen.


JULY                                                                                                     AUGUST

5    Strawberry Shortcake                                                                    2 Covell, Brigs, Hughes          

12  Smith, Rush, Wright, Lanni                                                               9 Suggitt, Deneu, Simmons

19  Gorba, Albra, Bolger, J & H Hansen                                                16 Flayter, Landanno, Novick

26  Harty, McCoy, DiYeso, Fellin                                                          23 Alexander, Byers, Cook

                                                                                                               30 Corwin, Supan, Cochran

 

 

 

Bread for the World describes itself as “…a collective Christian voice urging our nation’s decision makers to end hunger at home and abroad.”  They do this in a number of ways, one of which they call an Offering of Letters.  This years’ focus is HR 2139, the Initiating Foreign Assistance Reform Act, an essential first step in making US foreign assistance more effective and streamlined.  First Reformed will be conducting a letter offering sometime over the Summer, and we urge everyone to participate.  A letter of support for the pending legislation should be addressed to both US senators, and to their US representative.  There is no need to wait for us to designate a Sunday.  Write and mail your letters now, but let John Twohig know how many letters were sent.  Please contact him at 831-5694, or at twigman52@hotmail.com.   There will be a representative from Bread coming to First Reformed at the end of September.

 

 

 

                         2009 Graduates

 

Kimberlee Chao, daughter of Bonnie & Victor Chao graduated from Boston University and will be attending the University of San Diego for her law degree.

 

John Lacey, son of Connie Lacey graduated from Marist College with a Master of Arts Degree with a Major in School Psychology.

 

Garrett Leggett, son of Nancy & Doug Leggett and grandson of Barbara Van Voorhis graduated from Dutchess Community College with an Associate Degree in Architecture.

 

Jonathan Novick, son of Donna & Philip Novick graduated from John Jay High School. He will be attending SUNY New Paltz in the Fall majoring in English and Writing.  

 

Tammy Rodriguez, daughter of Connie Kayson graduated from Marist College with a Masters Degree in Mental Health Counseling.

 

Nicholas Serra, son of James & Andrea Serra and Paula Serra and grandson of Marian Serra graduated from Newburgh Free Academy. He will be attending Marist College in the Fall.

 

Allison Slaughter, daughter of Corrine & Thomas Slaughter and granddaughter of Eleanor Silverstein graduated from Poughkeepsie High School. She will be attending Liberty College in Virginia in the Fall.

 

Emily Sneyd, daughter of Carol & Glen Sneyd and granddaughter of Ruth Stumpp graduated from Beacon High School. She will be Dutchess Community college in the Fall.

 

Kierstin Teske - White, granddaughter of Jean Teske graduated from Chestnut Hill College with a degree in Human Services and will be attending Temple University studying for a Masters Degree in Occupational Therapy.

 

Edward K. Tucholski, Jr., son Stacey & Ed Tucholski graduated from Dutchess Community College with an Associate of Applied Science in Communication and Media Arts. He will be attending Marist College in the Fall with a partial merit scholarship and will be completing his degree in Communications.

 

 

                          Vacation Bible School

 

        August 10 to 14           M, W, F    6:00 - 8:30pm

                                             T & Th     1:00 - 3:00pm

 

The program we are running for VBS this year is multi-generational as it was last year.  We will serve a light supper on the Mon, Wed, and Fri. evenings.  We will have projects, activities and stories for everyone to participate in.           

 

Our theme is based on the book Three Cups of Tea by Greg Mortensen .  We will be collecting pennies to send to the Central Asia Institute to build schools in Afghanistan and Pakistan.  This is a way of promoting peace through education.

 

We hope to see as many of you as can make it.  We had a lot of fun last summer.  If you have questions or would like a ride please call Jayne Hoffman 896-9659 or Bonnie Chao 221-9105

 

 

Notes from June Consistory Meeting

 

" Deacon Kathy Campbell led devotions using a poem titled “Weavings,” which reminded us that the all the threads and knots of life can be used by God as our life is woven by the Great Weaver.

" The Fundraising policy for CCS was approved and will become part of policy handbook and business plan. 

" The Elders approved the transfer of membership for David Bellach to the Hopewell Reformed Church.

" Treasurers Operating Report for April shows revenues totaling

     $18,654.80 and expenses totaling $14,708.38.

" Vacation Bible School will be held evenings, August 10, 12, & 14 and days August 11 & 13. The program is titled “Pennies for Peace.”

" The chimes are being used at the Area II Bell Festival in Scranton, PA the weekend of June 26th.

" The solar photovoltaic system to generate electricity in the Education Building will be installed. The approximate cost is $118,000, with $85,000 rebated by a grant from NYSERDA. Funding will come from a variety of unrestricted funds, including the Memorial Fund, Operating Fund, Kohler Estate, Individual gifts, and Investments. 

" A sexton will be hired to clean the Sanctuary and DuBois House Weekly, starting July 1st.

" Next regular Consistory meeting is July 21st, 7:15 pm.  .

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RCA General Synod 2009

The Synod of 2009 was historical, celebratory and amazing.  Each day began with worship and throughout the day, the HOPE Team (House of Prayer Equipping) held the synod’s work in prayer.  Truly, the Holy Spirit was present in our discussions, discernment and ultimate decisions.

 

After using the Belhar Confession in worship, listening as speakers broadened our understanding, discussing the benefits and concerns surrounding this confession, and standing together in silent prayer, the Synod voted to adopt the Belhar Confession as a fourth standard of unity for the RCA.  If this decision is upheld by two-thirds of the RCA’s 46 classes, the Belhar Confession will take its place along side the Belgic Confession (1561), the Heidelberg Catechism (1563), and the Canons of the Synod of Dort (1618-1619).  What an historic moment!  Watch for the outcome of the classes votes during the 2010 General Synod in Orange City, Iowa, next June.

 

The 30th anniversary of women in ministry was celebrated on Saturday evening.  This celebration took place under the capable leadership of Dr. Carol Bechtel – the first woman minister president of General Synod.  As you know, earlier this year it was announced that the money for Women’s Ministries was depleted and the staff position was terminated.  Mid-Hudson Classis and two other classes overtured General Synod to continue the Office of Women’s Ministries through an assessment to maintain a full-time coordinator with appropriate back-up staff and budget. Let’s celebrate! The following recommendation was approved: to direct General Synod Council to develop a plan for a future “Office for Woman” to be in place by January, 2010 or as soon as possible thereafter.  Synod approved an assessment increase of $1.30 per person to support this position as it allows the RCA to live out its commitment to full inclusion of women at all levels of the church ‘s leadership and ministry. 

 

Another celebration occurred when General Synod welcomed several representatives from the Dominican Republic Reformed Church and officially recognized this new denomination, born on May23, 2009, out of a close partnership with the RCA.  Synod witnessed a covenant between the two communions in which they vowed to work together in ministry in the Dominican Republic and beyond.

 

With sadness in many hearts, the Synod requested that the General Synod Council facilitate the orderly cessation of publication of the Church Herald and GSC and the Church Herald Editorial Council work together to determine a denomination communication plan that preserves the best of the Herald and RCA Today magazines and moves gradually to an electronic medium. In the meantime, make your voice heard on the RCA Website (www.rca.org) blog, and pray that the new publication provides the coast to coast communications needed to maintain unity in living out Christ’s call to preach the gospel and bring reconciliation to our hurting world.

 

Here are a few other facts:

James Seawood, pastor of Brighton Heights Reformed Church in Staten Island, NY, was voted president of the General Synod.  Don Poest is the new General Synod vice president.  Don has served as senior pastor for 31 years at Brunswick Reformed Church in Brunswick, Ohio, and brings valuable experience with his past service to the Synod of the Great Lakes, classis of Lake Erie, and as a member of the General Synod Council.

 

General Synod approved a 2010 assessment amount of $41.46 per confessing member.

 

I was blessed to represent the Mid-Hudson Classis and Fishkill Reformed Church in this assembly and ask everyone to support our denominational leadership with your prayers as they carry out the work of this General Synod. 

 

Respectfully, in Christ’s Service, Janice Melichar-Utter

Earth Care……from the Stewardship Committee           

     Attending Pastor Gloria’s book study and participating in the Stewardship committee has challenged me to think about life patterns we can change to move toward a more sustainable, environmentally friendly life style. This led me to thinking about how differently and simpler things were done during my childhood.  One noticeable difference was that paper towels were unheard of; we lived quite well without them.  I remember my grandmother saying, “Don’t use that rag on the floor!”   Yes, there were specific cloths for given tasks: soft ones for dusting, absorbent ones for wiping up spills; lint-free fabric, like sheets, for windows, and grubby ones for dirty jobs.

      Today we use paper towels for everything.   We purchase them on sale in 12-packs. It’s so easy to just tear off a bunch of paper towels, wipe up a spill, and toss them out.   What are we doing with our worn sheets, stained tee shirts, and frayed towels?

   While traveling in Costa Rico a few years ago, Jim and I met an interesting, young professional couple from PA.   During dinner conversation, we learned they use no paper towels – none at all!  Whoa!  They put me to shame, and I began thinking how I might follow their example.   Then Pastor Gloria told me about her challenge to use only two rolls of paper towels a year.  To do that, I’ll have to hide them when our children visit or my year’s supply will be gone in one or two visits. Hmmm!

   I challenge you to join me in becoming conscious, really conscious of how and when we use paper towels (and all paper products) and how we might do tasks differently. I now cool hot cookies on a clean linen towel, keep old terry clothe towels handy under my sink for spills, use a squeegee to dry windows and wipe up the drips with newspaper or an old sheet.  We use only cloth napkins.  Currently there are no paper towels in our kitchen – we’ve already used two rolls this year! 

    So what difference does all this extra effort make in the big picture?  Well, all the consumer goods we use are ultimately derived from nature in some way, and to this extent everything we use has some impact on the world around us. By not throwing used paper towels in the garbage, land fills will receive a bit less refuse.  We’re a long way from a “zero-waste society” – a goal to ponder - but an important concept that needs to shape policy & practice.  On a personal level, it just feels good to know I’m stepping a little lighter on our planet by using less of its resources.

     Changing life patterns is a process.  Start by purchasing paper towels with the small sized sheets.  Think twice before you use one.  See how long you can make one roll last and eventually join the two roll a year challenge or even better, stop using paper towels altogether. Hopefully this will set an example and become a discussion point making us conscious of unnecessary waste of other resources.  Try this simple planet saving step and see where it takes you!

                                                                                       Peace, Janice Melichar-Utter

 

 

As part of the celebration of The Fishkills 300th anniversary, there will be church tours of several area churches from 2-4 on the 2nd Sunday of July and August, including Fishkill Reformed, Trinity Episcopal, Wiccopee Methodist,   and others.  So if you have always wanted to learn about some of our neighbors, go and visit!  If you haven't toured Fishkill Reformed yet either, be sure to include us on the tour. 

 

Also, on Sept 19th and 20th, as part of the Hudson Valley Ramble and the Revolutionary War Weekend, there will be church tours from 9-5 on Saturday and 11-4 on Sunday.  In addition, Connie Lacey will be presenting a concert of Early American Music on Saturday at 2:00.  There will be other events at Mount Gulian, The Van Wyck House, the East Fishkill Historical Society's Brinckerhoff-Pudney-Palen House, as well as up and down the Hudson Valley.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

St. Croix's Kingshill School receives full accreditation (from the Virgin Islands Daily News)
By ALDETH LEWIN
Wednesday, June 3rd 2009


Kingshill School - a small, private school on St. Croix dedicated to kids with learning disabilities has recently gained full accreditation as a junior high and high school by Middle States Association of Colleges and Schools.

Janie Koopmans, the school's director, said it was a long and intensive process to get accreditation, a goal she was not even considering when the school started in 1997.

Koopmans has a master's degree in special education. Her focus and training is in learning disabilities, and soon after she moved to the territory, she was asked to be a homeschooling teacher for a child who was struggling in school.

She had five students the next year and nine the year after that. It soon became clear that she was filling a real need in the community. So, at the suggestion of a Education Department employee, she decided to start her own school.

"It just grew from there," Koopmans said.

The school is 7-12 grade and serves students with learning differences including dyslexia and attention deficit disorder. It also serves some physically handicapped students.

"We work with students who are not being successful in their current schools," Koopmans said.

Some students come to Kingshill School for just a year or two to learn the techniques that will allow them to return to a mainstream school, but others decide to stay. Last weekend, the school graduated five seniors, the first graduating class out of seven to earn accredited high school diplomas.

Middle States informed the school of their full accreditation on May 1. Their certification by the agency is effective until May 1, 2016.

Koopmans said she tries to keep enrollment at about 30 kids, which means about five or six students per class. The small class sizes mean specialized attention and support that is often missing from mainstream schools, public or private.

The school wants to expand the services they offer, not just to their enrolled students, but to all students. Koopmans said she is working to create a full summer program and expand Kingshill's after-school tutoring program, opening it up to the entire community and perhaps elementary school students.

Scholarships are available, Koopmans said.

 

 

 

 

 

Croatia Update

Slower summer pace provides planning for fall             By Nancy Titus

Summertime! We’re feeling it here in Osijek. Temperatures have been scorching; mosquitoes have been biting; and students have been leaving. This is the time of year when we get to reduce our frenetic pace of classes, exams and papers and move along at something approaching normal as we wind up things at the seminary and plan for summer projects and the next school year.

Our summer involves three trips. First, we will go to Geneva for the 500th anniversary of John Calvin’s birth. This is a short trip to commemorate one of the most important figures in our Reformed tradition. As part of our preparation, every member of the family is reading and learning more about Calvin’s life and his theology as well as some interesting things about Geneva itself.

As soon as we return, Eric will leave for Lyon, France, where he will most likely be the only American at a meeting of the Conference of European Churches. He is a delegate representing the Reformed Christian Church in Croatia. Participation at such an international gathering is one of the gifts we bring to the Croatian Reformed Church, as the leader of the church here is too elderly for this kind of travel and there is no pastor able to take his place because of the necessity of proficiency in the English language.

The Conference of European Churches is a fellowship of 126 Orthodox, Protestant, Anglican and Old Catholic churches (though not officially the Roman Catholic church) and 43 associated organizations from all countries on the European continent. The organization began 50 years ago to show that the church was not divided even though Europe itself was cut into two blocks. It seeks to help churches across Europe move into a deeper unity in Christ and for this, its 13th assembly, the group has focused a great deal of attention on “the Europe we are hoping for” as members have tried to envision the Europe of 20 years from now.

Our third trip is our return to the United States, where we will spend the rest of the year. After checking in with our sending church in Fishkill, New York, we will travel to Oklahoma and Texas to visit family. We are all anxious to see them as it has been two years since the kids and I saw parents and grandparents and three or four years since Eric has seen them.

We will again take up temporary residence in Pultneyville, New York, on Lake Ontario near Rochester, while we visit churches during the fall and early winter. While there will not be time to visit all our supporting churches, we will visit as many as we can. Global Mission is putting together our speaking schedule, and the first priority is for those churches we have never visited. Global Mission staff members will begin contacting churches in the next few weeks to coordinate scheduling.

Though we will be in the States for five months, we will only miss three months of the seminary year. Even so, we will continue much of our work the same as if we were here. For example, Eric will work on his dissertation, spending most of his time when not visiting churches, researching and writing this important work. I will focus on Croatian language study as well as planning English classes and coordinating the English Department at the seminary from afar.

We ask for your prayers for our home leave as there are many details that still need to be worked out. Chief among our concerns is the need for a car. We have been hearing about great deals on new cars and hope someone among our churches out there might be ready to replace an older car which they then would be willing to loan or sell us at a good price. Also, there are many details on both sides of the Atantic, including who will teach English at the seminary. Please pray with us that God will make all these details fall into place.

 

Eric and Nancy Titus are RCA missionaries in Osijek, Croatia, where they work at the Evangelical Theological Seminary and with the Reformed Christian Church in Croatia. They have three children: Samuel, 14, Valerie, 11, and Penny, 9.

 

 

 

 

First Reformed Church of Fishkill

1153 Main Street

Fishkill, NY 12524

www.fishkillreformed.org

 

 

DON’T FORGET:

 

In August we will be soliciting food donations to the Food Pantry. 

 

August 2 – breakfast foods                                                      

August 9 – lunch foods

August 16 – dinner foods                                             

August 23 – snacks

August 30 – to be announced